Yvonne and I were headed south on I-85 in North Carolina. Our destination was a quick overnight outside Raleigh on the way to Florida. The sun was starting to set when Yvonne said – “Let’s find some water to hike along and see the sunset.” Sure.
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Patiently I replied, “I don’t think there even is a body of water near Raleigh, but if you can find something, set the GPS.” Well there was, and she did.
I’m not at ease with “new.” I want to know what I’m tackling, where I’m going. Give me a map, Google, a visitor center, someone to give me advice, and then some time to make an informed decision. Not Yvonne. Go now, ask later. So as we crossed a bridge, spotted a path into the woods, and space on the side of the road to park, it was pull over and let’s go!
Admittedly, I was a little chafed at first. We had gone out of our way and wouldn’t make my Maps app arrival time for our destination. And….??? This was the first day of a multiple week vacation with goals to disengage, rest and be restored. But how do I shut off my clock – that nagging “have to” entrenched in the back of my brain? Maybe flip a switch?
I pondered, as we crunched over January leaves in temperatures already 20 degrees higher than what we left behind, how many things I have been privileged to taste and enjoy in life because my partner has an uncanny ability to stop and start. “Let’s go here.” “Let’s try this.” “Why don’t we…?”
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The setting sun showed off a display of light and color that the placid water we walked near was all too eager to imitate. The show seemed almost exclusively for us – at least there did not seem many who were taking the time to receive the peaceful bathing of a day putting itself to sleep, the stillness of the moment as sun and moon exchanged places as guardians of the sky.
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The two mile walk was all of 42 minutes. Yes, I reached my ‘destination’ over an hour later than planned… but three weeks later, that quiet evening walk alone with my traveling friend, where nature seemed to stop and give us a show, is the event I most vividly remember. And I would have missed it entirely, had I not been willing to take time to pause.
[January 5, 2022. Falls Lake Sunset Hike, Falls Lake State Recreation Area, Wake Forest, North Carolina]